What “Uncontested” Really Means
Many people walk into a divorce lawyer’s office saying they want an uncontested divorce. They believe that because both spouses want the divorce, the case will be uncontested. But in Texas, the term has a much narrower meaning.
A divorce is truly uncontested only if both parties agree on every single issue. This includes how property will be divided, where the children will live, how far a parent can move, when parenting time occurs, how much child support will be paid, and every other detail of co-parenting.
For many couples, reaching complete agreement on all these points before filing is rare. That doesn’t mean it can’t happen—but it does mean that many cases thought to be “uncontested” are actually contested once details are reviewed.
The Timeline for Divorce in Texas
People often ask: How long does a divorce take in Texas? On average, the process lasts about eight months. However, the length of time largely depends on how quickly the parties can reach an agreement.
For those who truly agree on everything, there is still a mandatory 60-day waiting period between the filing of the divorce and the finalization. This waiting period is written into Texas law to prevent rushed decisions. In practice, even in uncontested cases, preparing paperwork and getting a court date usually pushes the timeline closer to two to three months.
If disagreements arise, that timeline stretches longer—sometimes much longer. Court schedules, mediation efforts, and the time needed to resolve disputes all add to the delay. Couples who begin with high levels of conflict may find themselves in the legal process for more than a year, particularly if custody or complex property division issues are at stake.
Why Agreements Often Fall Apart
At the start of a divorce, some couples are cooperative. They want to work together and believe they are on the same page. But as the process continues, many realize there are important issues they had not fully considered.
When spouses think more about life after divorce, new priorities often surface. Issues that seemed unimportant at the beginning can become sticking points later. For example, a parent might initially agree on a visitation schedule, only to reconsider once they think about work obligations, extracurricular activities, or the logistics of school pickups.
Another common trigger that turns an uncontested divorce into a contested one is when one spouse begins dating. The emotional response from the other spouse can unravel prior agreements quickly, shifting the divorce into a contested situation. Emotions and logic don’t always align, and what once seemed like a simple arrangement can suddenly feel unfair or unacceptable to one party.
It’s important to understand that divorce is not just a legal process—it’s an emotional one. Decisions made under stress or resentment may be challenged later, which is why having a clear plan and legal guidance is essential.
Can You File for Divorce Without a Lawyer?
Legally, you are not required to hire an attorney to file for divorce in Texas. The Supreme Court of Texas even provides forms for those who have no property, no children, and a completely cooperative spouse. In very simple cases, a do-it-yourself approach is possible.
But just because you can represent yourself doesn’t mean it’s the best option. The comparison often made is this: you can legally remove your own appendix, too—but that doesn’t mean you should.
DIY divorces frequently run into problems. Judges may reject improperly completed decrees. Important details may be left out, leaving unresolved issues that can create long-term conflict. And if children, property, or retirement accounts are part of the divorce, the stakes are much too high to risk costly mistakes.
Many people who begin a DIY divorce end up seeking legal help midway through the process after hitting roadblocks. At that point, fixing errors or addressing missed details can make the case even more time-consuming and stressful than it would have been with an attorney from the start.
When It Makes Sense to Hire a Lawyer
Even in cases where both spouses believe they agree, it can help to have an attorney review the agreement and prepare the paperwork. Often, once details are discussed, it becomes clear that not all issues have actually been decided.
Having a lawyer involved early can prevent unpleasant surprises later. A good attorney will guide you through the questions that need to be answered, make sure agreements comply with Texas law, and help avoid oversights that could cause delays or disputes.
An attorney also helps prepare for what could go wrong. For example, you might assume your spouse won’t change their mind about a parenting schedule, but if they do, having a clear, enforceable order in place protects you from unnecessary conflict. Legal representation provides a safeguard against both procedural mistakes and emotional turbulence.
Questions People Commonly Ask
Is my divorce uncontested if we both want it?
Not necessarily. Wanting a divorce is only the beginning. To qualify as uncontested, both spouses must agree on every detail, from property division to parenting plans.
What if my spouse and I agree now, but later change our minds?
This happens frequently. Divorce agreements can fall apart as emotions shift or as spouses reconsider the long-term impact of their decisions. What begins uncontested may turn contested.
How long will my divorce take if it is uncontested?
In Texas, the minimum is 60 days. In practice, with paperwork and hearings, most uncontested divorces take around two to three months.
Can I really do my own divorce without a lawyer?
Yes, but only if there are no children, no property, and both spouses are in complete agreement. In nearly all other cases, it’s wise to consult an attorney.
Why do judges sometimes reject DIY divorce decrees?
Because the paperwork may not comply with Texas law, or it might fail to address important issues. Courts need clear, enforceable orders, and improperly prepared documents often don’t meet that standard.
Protecting Yourself in the Process
Divorce is stressful enough without adding preventable mistakes. Trying to navigate property division, custody arrangements, and support orders without legal guidance can leave you vulnerable. Even cases that start out simple can shift quickly when new issues arise.
Bolton Law helps clients avoid these pitfalls by providing clear guidance, preparing enforceable agreements, and protecting their rights throughout the process. Whether your case is contested or uncontested, having an advocate ensures you are not left with regrets once the divorce is final.
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